Pelvic Massage? ! Of Course You're Nervous!
You want to experience some physical excitement that you are not currently (if ever) receiving, but there is so much uncertainty. Who does this kind of work? Will I be safe? Is it clean and sterile? What could happen that maybe I don't want to happen? Am I bad if I do this?
And probably about 50 more questions that I didn't articulate here. Right? You are not alone. Virtually all women who do finally obtain a massage here have struggled with these questions and more. Sadly some women never overcome their fears and miss out on an extraordinary experience.
Know Exactly What Will Happen (and what Will Not) in Advance
There seem to be some unspoken rules of sex between men and women that weigh heavy on your mind. It goes like this; you have your clothes off with a man, and that gives him permission to do whatever he wants to you unless you object? Or something along those lines... NOT HERE! I frequently hear how women have found themselves being "surprised" by men who (usually with good intentions) offered more than was expected either verbally or worse, by simply taking action(s).
Unpredictability is terrible for business.
It is not lost on me that if you can't predict what will happen, you wont book, or if you do, you wont relax, you will always be in your head, on guard, and not present in your body or sensation.
So here is what will NOT happen
- I will not remove any of my clothing (except for my shoes some times.)
- I will not hit on you, ask for a date, tell you I like you, or speak to you in any unprofessional way. I am in a relationship that knows and supports what I do.
- I will not use anything but oil or lubricant on your body. (Containers are washed after each session.) I am bit of a germaphobe myself and appreciate the value of a safe clean experience.
- I will not perform oral, or initiate any other form of sexual contact that is unexpected, unprofessional or not explicitly discussed and agreed to prior to commencement of your session.
- I will not touch any part of you body that you do not want touched. I will spend as much time as you like on any part of your body that you want me to touch.
- I will generally not do anything that we do not clearly discuss and agree to prior to commencement of your session.
- I will be open to adjustments, requests and suggestions. If during the course of your session, your body becomes suggestible to something previously unavailable to you, and you wish to explore the depths of something exciting or new, I accept all questions without judgment. Anything and everything is fair game for a discussion that you initiate.
- I will not initiate any conversation that is not completely professional. However, you will have questions and topics that you will be dying to discuss. I love to have these conversations. Please feel free to initiate a dialog on any topic that inspires you.
This does not mean there will be no surprise, or that some things mentioned above are outside of my boundaries. I do surrogate work so there are situations where experiences happen that are more diverse than only the use of my hands. Such things would have to be specifically requested and discussed (usually) in advance.
But for You, because You are nervous, I offer the utmost in professional behavior. Some women even call it clinical.
Let's get Thorough about your Safety and Security
The first thing required for an intimate experience journey to begin is relaxation. Your pelvic nerve does not work under stress, fear, anxiety, or dozens of other nerve-wracking emotions. So before it can begin for you, we have to visit your vigilance center checklist. My goal is to do everything possible for you to see the environment, see and meet me, be fully informed about what happens, know that you have 100% of the control over how your session proceeds, and generally tend to your list of questions and uncertainties until you have a very clear and certain understanding about your safety and security.
We never proceed to a massage before we meet and talk
The most expedient method for getting you closer to the realization of your experience is to meet me in person. Getting acquainted changes everything. Right now this is all just an exciting mystery. But uncertainty makes it difficult or impossible. Meeting face to face in a public place allows you to engage your intuition and senses. Looking at web pages only gives you information. I think I am just an ordinary guy with a passion for quality in intimacy. But you need to be the judge of that for YOU. If after coffee, you are not interested, just let me know and you will never hear from me again. On the other hand, if you feel comfortable and want to proceed, we can arrange your appointment any time you like. Hope to see you soon!
Let's talk about your body image concerns
I hear it all the time. Essentially, "my body is not ready to be seen as it is right now." I get it that you want to be seen in your optimum fitness. But I am not your personal trainer. And I am not here to scrutinize or judge you. I am not perfect. No one is. We all have all those attributes that make us unique and I genuinely appreciate that. I think it is way more attractive when someone has confidence enough the flip the middle finger to the judgmental world, and just rock who they are.
So please feel free to come as you are. Be worshiped as the feminine goddess that you are in the mortal being who is 100% perfect you.
Let's meet for coffee and open the lines of communication. We (can) start in a public place (no charge), we get to know each other a little in a safe public place. Then, if you want, we schedule a time to begin with your wish list. We can start with whatever feels good and right. If everything is going as desired, we move to other items, all at your pace and at your convenience.
References - Referrals
As much as I would love to provide you with references and referrals that you could call and ask about me, doing that might put these customers at risk. It could be construed as illegal to refer a person that touches genitals and in any way receives compensation. I do not want to put any of my lovely customers at risk so I do not ask them to tell you about me. I do have a few testimonial videos you can watch. These women know me and speak their minds. You can check them out here.
What happens when you click a purple "schedule" button?
The buttons that look like this will take you to my scheduling app. There you can look at my availability calendar and choose a day and time that is convenient for you. There is no up front charge to schedule, heck we don't even ask for your credit card. It is really easy to schedule and you will get a reply email pretty much instantly that tells you where to go. The email you get also has everything you need to cancel or reschedule right at your fingertips. It also has my direct phone number so you can call or text me if you have any questions prior to our appointment. If you aren't finding the time you want in my schedule, text me at the phone number at the top of this page in the right-hand corner. Go ahead, try it now. 😉
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