How receiving Pussy Massage Helped my Husband Learn how to Pleasure Me Better:

Both my husband and I grew up in very conservative homes. Our families were religious, and the notion of sexual pleasure was a massive taboo that no one was really allowed to talk about. Frankly, I think we weren’t even really allowed to THINK about it. This is why I was incredibly curious about pussy massage.

In my family, I was taught that my body was to be protected from violation at all costs. I was taught that expressing my sexuality in any way, being sexy in any way, was absolutely not okay. It was a sin, and being sexual meant I was going to go to hell.

Growing up, I would not allow myself to engage with any sexual attraction, or even touch my own body to see what was pleasurable and felt good. If a man gave me any attention that felt sexual in nature, I would make efforts to hide, to shut off my energy, to cover and contort my body to make it less appealing to the male gaze.

By the time I entered my twenties, I was extremely cut off from myself sexually. I had fully shut myself down.

Honestly, it was a miracle I was able to create attraction with my husband. He also came from an extremely repressive background, in which he was taught that sexual expression of any kind was a sin.

Needless to say, we both approached our intimate and sexual relationship with a lot of ignorance, and a lot of avoidance, because we simply did not know how to relate to ourselves or each other that way.

For the first few years of our marriage, we barely had any physical intimacy. We just didn’t know how to go there with each other, and we both had complicated beliefs wrapped up around that form of expression.

I knew I wanted to deepen in our physical relationship with each other. I knew I wanted to explore the realms of sensual pleasure and to access the depths that I had heard were possible when it comes to expressing love physically. I wanted to connect with my husband on a much deeper level.

We had a lot of conflict and resistance around it though. I didn’t know how to connect with him around it in a way that would feel safe for both of us. I think we both felt extremely out of our element.

This is when I discovered that there was such a thing as a yoni massage practitioner. This is someone who gives a pussy massage. I had no idea previously that such a service existed for women. The idea that it was possible to make an appointment for a strange man to give you pleasure… that was just beyond my imagination!

As I was perusing a yoni massage practitioner’s website, I realized that this type of massage was used a lot for sexual healing. His website explained that there were actually a lot of women like me who were unfamiliar with how they like to be pleasured, and chose to use the yoni massage experience as an opportunity to discover what was truly pleasurable.

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Honestly, the idea of this made me very nervous, but also a little bit excited. It was possible to bring my husband along to watch and learn, and also to help me feel safe with this other man I didn’t know. For some reason, I found the idea of having my husband there with me to be quite comforting. I wondered if he would be sexually excited by watching me receive pleasure at all. Truthfully, a part of me wanted to find out if it would turn him on.

I proposed the idea to my husband. I told him that I wanted to explore pleasure more, and that I had found an opportunity to learn from someone who would help me discover what was pleasurable for me. I asked him if he would be willing to come with me, and to watch and learn with me.

At first, he really didn’t like the idea. He was worried about another man touching me. It was not something he had ever considered before. And he certainly had not considered whether he would enjoy such a thing.

After a lot of talking about it, he finally agreed that we could set up an appointment and try it. I called the yoni massage practitioner and described our situation to him, and told him I would like to set up my first basic yoni massage.

On the day of the appointment, my husband and I went to his office. Both of us admitted we were nervous. I had no idea if I was going to be able to get comfortable with the yoni massage practitioner.

When we arrived, we all sat down and discussed what was going to occur during the appointment. The yoni massage practitioner told me that he wanted to get absolute clarity around what I desired to experience during the session, and what I did not desire to experience. He was only interested in providing EXACTLY what I wanted, and he wanted to be sure that he was not going to do anything that I did not want.

I told him I wanted to experience a basic yoni massage, with plenty of teasing touches so that I could get an idea of what was most sensationally exciting for me. I didn’t want him to touch anything anally, but otherwise I was fine with him experimenting with different forms of touch on the other parts of my body.

The yoni massage practitioner then turned to my husband and asked him how he felt about observing, and asked if there was anything he would like to voice or contribute before we began the appointment?

My husband simply shared that he felt a bit awkward and shy, and he didn’t really know how he would feel while watching this happen. The yoni massage practitioner let him know that he would speak up at any point if he became uncomfortable and that we could all communicate about it.

My husband and I both gave our consent to begin the session, and I removed my clothes and laid face down on the massage table and my husband sat on a chair nearby with a good view. I just tried to relax and focus on my breathing. I was worried I wouldn’t be able to calm my nerves.

The yoni massage practitioner began by slowly and sensually rubbing my full body in long strokes. All the way down my legs and my arms, up and down my back, over my hips. He then sat by my head and ran his fingers gently through my hair for a bit.

I felt my body begin to relax. My breathing slowed, and deepened. He went back to massaging my body in long slow strokes. I became aware of my husband watching nearby. I felt him relax as I relaxed. I could hear his breathing slow, too. He wasn’t so worried about me.

The more I relaxed, the more pleasure I started to feel under the weight of the yoni massage practitioner’s touch. That was when he began to tease me, by sweeping his touch along my inner thighs, widening my legs by pulling out my feet a bit. My breath caught in my throat as I realized that my yoni was completely visible to both the yoni massage practitioner and my husband now. It was a really vulnerable, but also really exciting feeling.

My breath quickened… and so did my husband’s as he watched.

The yoni massage practitioner gently teased his way around and closer to my yoni. I felt tingles and warmth under his touch, as he gently swept his fingers closer and closer to my labia and my clit. My yoni began to feel warm and achey.

So THIS was real pleasure, I thought to myself. This is what I had been missing. This is what I had been longing to feel with my husband that I had been too fearful and avoidant of experiencing in the past. It was truly a delicious feeling.

I could tell that my husband was becoming turned on by watching my clear response to the amount of pleasure that was building up in my body. I imagine I looked pretty sexy as I began to writhe on the table and moan slightly.

The yoni massage practitioner asked me to turn my body over on the table, and he proceeded to give his attention to my yoni entirely. He slowly rubbed my clit, stroked my labia, and finally probed a finger at a shallow depth into my vagina.

As he increased the intensity of what he was doing, I experienced a huge orgasm – the first I had EVER experienced. My husband had been watching intently, and was eager to practice what he had observed throughout the coming weeks. He developed a brand new relationship with his body, and I got to develop a new relationship with his, as well.

We went back to the yoni massage practitioner a few times to see what else we could learn about pleasure exploration, and it helped us deepen our intimate connection with each other in ways I had never imagined. I am so thankful I got my first pussy massage and for the way that this practice opened me to a brand new experience with my husband, and also for how it equipped him with what he needed to know in order to have a new experience with me.

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Want to see what a Sensual Massage session might look like?

This video is an example of a session with Rocky. Recorded in June 2018.

And we now have a new version posted Jan. 2020 1st Session What to Expect Seattle 2020 (Note, the first four minutes and 15 seconds are the same as the video on this page, but with a different volunteer.) This one has an extra special surprise ending for her that you don’t want to miss!

Please note, This is only an example of one of at least 100 “themed” sensual or erotic massage possibilities. Your session could be tailored to be Much softer and slower, and or almost any degree of decreased or increased penetration, stimulation and intensity. Every session is customized to your specific boundaries, wishes, interests, fantasies, and desires.  

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