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Healing Female Sexuality: Female Sexual Arousal Disorders
Imagine feeling relaxed around your sexuality. Relaxed and confident and alive. Imagine knowing exactly what you want and how to ask for it. Imagine being able to get it.
Imagine feeling your deep sensual female sexuality. Imagine feeling powerful, and able to get exactly what you want all the time.
This is the power of women’s sexuality. If we open it and heal it you’ll have that power. The power to move and change things in the world, or simply to be served and get what you want from the masculine.
We can help with all forms of female sexual dysfunction with our non-healthcare, holistic approach.
In healing sexual dysfunction, an important part is talk therapy. After you work with your healthcare provider, psychologist or psychiatrist, the next step is exploring touch. It’s the difference between learning in class or having the experience yourself. We offer the coaching and touch.
We get referrals from sex therapists where people have problems with sexual disorders. We find that many can be solved by receiving sexual touch in a safe environment. The therapy community is beginning to make this part of people’s treatment plans.
Female Sexual Arousal Disorder
Female sexual arousal disorder is a disorder of sexual health (which we do not treat in the context of healthcare.) It is the name we give to women who experience a persistent inability to achieve or maintain sexual arousal. This impacts women in all sorts of ways, particularly in them losing interest in sex.
Female sexual arousal disorder can affect sexual desire and it can lead to sexual difficulties in couples. Arousal problems mean that sexual excitement is greatly diminished, and sexual behaviour often ceases.
Women with this disorder often feel like it strains their relationships and makes sexual behaviour feel transactional. They often feel like they have to service their partners needs, and sex becomes something that is no longer for them. They simply allow their partner to use their body.
We have experience in providing you an option of self-correcting this disorder. In our practice we put our attention on you, and only on you. You are here to discover and experience pleasure with absolutely no need to do anything. We make a safe space where you have no obligations so that you can simply relax and learn to receive.
We’ve had a lot of success with women who were unable to experience orgasm. Some experience their first orgams with us. It may take several sessions to work through issues such as these. A first session often focuses on relaxing and experiencing the pleasures of the body as you let go of your thoughts.
What is Yoni Massage Therapy? (Non healthcare context)
Yoni Massage therapy is a type of sexual therapy that focuses on (holistic) self- healing, and can have huge impacts on your sexual behavior. Yoni is a sanskrit word for womb. It is a practice that takes place in a sacred space, and can help with women reporting all sorts of sexual dysfunction. This practice can help with decreased sexual desire.
Receiving a yoni massage is a way to work with your orgasmic energy, or sexual energy. A massage involves a full body massage, but focussing on your Yoni, your vulva and vagina. It can be external or internal.
We provide a sensual massage much like a yoni massage, but from a western perspective with the spiritual part removed. This is a wonderful way to (self-heal) work with sexual trauma or decreased desire, including in postmenopausal women.
We also work with people with hypoactive sexual desire disorder, where sexual desire is absent. We find providing sexual stimulation in a safe environment may help people with this disorder experience or open their sexuality.
Often this is a scary place to go, but it can be an important part in healing. Yoni or sensual massage increases blood flow in the pubic area and increases vaginal lubrication, and can result in healing your sexuality.
It can help prevent or avoid a host of sexual medical conditions. If you’re experiencing pushing and pulling feelings around experiencing your sexuallity, coming for a sensual massage can help you feel safe. It can help you find more clarity around your sexuality.
Sensual Massage
Our sensual massages are full body massages where we can also work with your pubic and genital areas. We focus on having you relax and experience pleasure.
Sensual massage simply removes the eastern spiritual aspects of Yoni massage. We still treat it as a special and sacred practice. The goal is to focus on you and exactly what you need and want to experience. We follow your body exactly.
In a sensual massage we use only water based lubricant on genitals, helping you fully relax. It requires an open mind to enter a space where we can work with you.
When massaging your sensitive areas we use our index finger or even the tip of your finger to guide you in experiencing pleasure. Women with trauma often tighten as a finger approaches the vagina. Helping you relax and feel safe can rewrite these responses over time.
If you have an absence of sexual feelings, this may be exactly what you need. Schedule an appointment today!