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What to expect in a Female SensualMassage. (Seattle, Everett, Bellevue, Kirkland, Redmond, Lynnwood, Marysville WA)

Hi my name is Rocky, I do Female Sensual Massage  or Female  Erotic Massage. For the purpose of this article, I consider them essentially the same thing.

In this blog I would like to tell you what to expect if you book a ladies massage with me.

First of all, currently I am the only person providing m4f or m4w massage for women at this time. I do get requests for female providers from time to time and I have arranged some female to female sessions. So if that is your interest, please click the link below that says I would like a massage by a female.

What does Female Sensual Massage Mean?

Next I want to discuss what we mean by Sensual Massage for women.

This term or terms means something different to every person. The range of expectation varies wildly from conservative to audacious. So before we begin any and every session we take a few moments to explore your objectives and solidify your boundaries for your session.

My work relies heavily on referrals, repeat business, and the confidence I can inspire through strict adherence to every boundary, every time.

What this means is that nothing will transpire in your session that will be an unwelcome surprise to you, even if you are hoping or expecting something to happen beyond our agreed boundaries.

That does not mean that we cannot create a broader boundary for you from the beginning that can include mystery and surprise that would  be welcome or desired. My goal is to provide the level of service that you seek without inadvertently  “presuming” that you “want” something that you didn’t actually have in mind.

I Don’t take the liberty of taking initiative, You have to tell me.

You may be used to situations where men are allowed to take initiative or even take advantage of your body while in a vulnerable state. That is not what I am about.

I seek to encourage you to be so bold as to ask for what you want and need in a safe predictable environment where it will not be judged or disparaged in any way.

That said, I do not want you to think that there will be no mystery or surprise within the confines of your boundaries. On the contrary. That is probably why you are here, for something interesting, intriguing, and exciting, hopefully even exhilarating! But you don’t want to expose yourself to some random guy that may have some ulterior motives.

I recognize a huge diversity in women, not only in body types, cultures, and social-economic backgrounds, but in erotic  interests and preferences. Every Single woman is profoundly unique. I endeavor to be present with who you are, where you are Now. That said, I expressly give you my permission to be completely candid and authentic about exactly what sensual massage means to you for each session individually.

One day It may be about teasing and sexual tension building, another day may be about deep slow, soft exploration. I delight in tailoring your visit to manifest your fantasy or vision to the highest expectation accuracy possible.

“A Little Mystery or Surprise within the confines of the Boundary Agreement”

An absolutely safe and predictable session is my #1 Objective

This is why I bring structure to the work I do. When you can have the utmost in confidence about the entire session, that you will never find yourself in an unexpected, or worse, unwelcome deviation from your boundaries, you are most likely going to be able to fully relax and maximize the depth of pleasure that you are seeking.

A good full body Sensual Massage begins with complete relaxation

Then when we are synchronized in your expectations and limits, I customize your experience around your interests and desires, up to the edges of your comfort zone(s).

If I somehow exceed your boundaries at any time, please let me know so I can adjust my understanding to maintain integrity with your wishes.

Typically when we proceed on your full body massage, I will begin with places on your body that you might have more casualness about like your back, your arms, your face, your hair etc. Then I move onto your legs, your feet, and your abdomen. This may take the better part of an hour, but it is time well spent because it does so much to relax your vigilance center and activate your pelvic nerve.

A Sensual Massage begins at a more casual location where touch is more frequent.

Insinuation – Close but not in contact with places that arouse…

Along the way of tending to your unobjectionable body locations I may use physical insinuation that is directed at erogenous zones within your boundaries.

Naked female massage is about igniting the pelvic nerve and building (for lack of a better word) sexual tension, or simply arousal. It doesn’t take direct genital contact to do this. And for many women, it is the deprivation of the direct genital contact that drives a richer arousal.

Once we have covered all of those innocuous places, we can move to the other location or locations you have granted me permission to handle. Again here I strive to incorporate surprise and mystery to the extent of your boundaries to intensify those erotic sensation and deepen that sexual tension.

Stimulation by being close, but not touching sensitive areas builds erotic tension

Feel free to relax, let me do everything, so you can be fully present in your body and mind.

It is fine with me if you remain completely silent, completely still, and completely composed. I get all the feedback I need to continue from your body. I notice every throb, every contraction, every breath, every pulse. I fastidiously listen to your body as it silently screams out its pleasure. I have a keen awareness of what is happening with your body and mind from the signals I see as I carefully and deliberately stroke those delicious locations that you have granted me access to stroke.

The experience I offer is for you to assemble your fears, your walls, your shame, your social repression, peoples judgments, and all that public negativity, and put it on the back burner for a couple hours in a discreet and private venue, so that you can safely surrender to your own vulnerability.

That place where you allow someone other than you to lovingly touch your intimacy. Not just in your body but hopefully in your mind or soul.

Feel free to be completely silent and “in your head and body”

As Much as I want to Show and Tell You Everything – Here… I CAN’T

Search Engines (and now the State of Washington Health Dept.) censor and restrict graphic adult content from being displayed when you search. Which is probably a good thing or most searches would be inundated with porn. So to get to what I believe you are looking for, we just have to go one step removed from this site, to other sites or pages (of mine) that are not censored by search engines or not listed in search engines at all.

Want to see what a Sensual Massage session might look like?

This video is an example of a session with Rocky. Recorded in June 2018.

And we now have a new version posted Jan. 2020 1st Session What to Expect Seattle 2020 (Note, the first four minutes and 15 seconds are the same as the video on this page, but with a different volunteer.) This one has an extra special surprise ending for her that you don’t want to miss!

Please note, This is only an example of one of at least 100 “themed” sensual or erotic massage possibilities. Your session could be tailored to be Much softer and slower, and or almost any degree of decreased or increased penetration, stimulation and intensity. Every session is customized to your specific boundaries, wishes, interests, fantasies, and desires.  

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